THE GIRL AMARI

🌸 Meet Amari

Who Is Amari?

Hi there, welcome to The Hearer and Me! I’m so glad you’re here. Honestly, I’ve been wanting to do this forever!! and today the Holy Spirit said, “Babes, today is your day.”

My name is Amari (not my real name,  it’s a rebirth of my actual name, Tamar). I’m a twenty-something figuring out adulthood, and truth be told, I don’t like it. Being in your 20s feels like someone snatched you from comfort and dumped you into reality. Scary stuff.

Student + Worker + Dreamer

Right now, I’m in my final year of university 🎓 while also working as a personal assistant for a growing brand. Crazy, right? The pressure feels endless, but the exciting part is I’m just weeks away from becoming a graduate.

With a GPA I’d rather not mention (😅) and a thousand questions about what comes after school, I’m learning to breathe, laugh, and write my way through it all.

The Personality Package 🎭

  A skinny foodie  (yes, I love food, no, it doesn’t show).

  A naturally funny soul.

  A TikTok content creator who enjoys being silly.

  And most importantly: a professional napper. I can nap for Africa. Touch my money, my time, or my sleep, and… let’s just say, you’ll see colors you’ve never seen in a crayon box. (Language, Amari 🤦🏾‍♀️).

Why This Blog? ✍🏾

Because I’ve always written. But there comes a point where journals and hidden notebooks just aren’t enough. Writing for me isn’t just a hobby,  it’s a release, an ache, a fire that demands to be shared.

This blog is my space to:

  Write.

  Educate.

  Entertain.

  Share my reality, my delusions, and my imagination.

Do I think I’m the best writer? No. Do I think there are better ones? Absolutely. But do I think anyone writes exactly like me? No. I am one of one. I am The Amari

The Duality of Amari 🌗

I’m a mix of contradictions:

  I can give mean girl energy at any time of the day, the smirk, the arched eyebrow, the laugh all just to intimidate.

  But I’m also the girl who’ll cheer you on in the rain, defend the ones I love, and support fiercely.

I’m calm, not naturally, but because life carved me that way.

I’m often times anxious,  my mind is loud with voices stronger than mine.

I live in two worlds: the one I’m stuck in (which I don’t always like) and the one in my mind (which I love but can’t reach).

The Promise 🌹

But enough about me. This isn’t just about who Amari is,  it’s about her words.

And here’s my promise:

I’ll write.

You’ll read.

And you’ll come back.

Because the words will matter.

And I’ll always be here, waiting……

for you, to you, with you.

Until next time,

Amari 🌸